Thursday, October 21, 2010

MY Beauty Equation

A few weeks ago, I had the pleasure to meet America's Next Top Model judge and photographer Nigel Barker. I have to admit I was star-struck! His stunning beauty (absolutely handsome!), his accent, his demeanor and the way he spoke to me with his eyes left me speechless for seconds, or more like minutes, as my editor interviewed him and I took notes. As I listened to the captivating words from his mouth (which included his beauty equation), it all made sense why I think he is beautiful. He was more than a gorgeous face with a sexy accent. He was a man who truly gets it.

We all have our own definition of beauty and Nigel said "it's our imperfections that make us perfect". That's when it clicked. That's when I thought about the way my right eye closes a little when I pose for a picture. Think about that scar on that person's face that gives him character and tells a story. Reflect on how it blends in with his skin to cause a dimple to match the ones when he smiles at you.

I see beauty in love. I see beauty in nature. I see beauty in people. Whether it's a father tossing his daughter in the air, or you're walking outside on a brisk autumn day as you listen to the multi-colored leaves crunch underneath your feet, or you witness someone tasting a dish for the first time, beauty is everywhere.

Beauty is a culmination of love for your fellow man and experiencing the blessings of life to the fullest.