Embracing My Brown!

Cocoa. Mocha. Cappuccino. Caramel. Chocolate.

These are just a few descriptions of the color brown and the words people use to describe the various skin tones of African-Americans. I think of them as terms of endearment that are not only used to describe foods and drinks we digest, but more or less the flavors of my people. All of them are sweet to the tooth and appealing to the eye (which we are and so much more!).

I can't express how much I love my people. It wasn't until about three years ago I actually sat down and listened intently to the lyrics of India.Arie's song "Brown Skin" (one of my faves by her--gotta love it!). In the song, she poetically depicts her love for a brotha. I have to admit, I fall more in love with the song every time I hear it! Apparently, I fell asleep on another song with India.Arie (and Musiq Soulchild) entitled "Chocolate High"--this is my new cut! :)

Our skin colors represent a spectrum of hues and our hair textures vary, which we (especially black women) can sport in any style (whether it's shaved off, worn in a natural, braided or twisted, or a part of an extension creation). We do it and we do it well! The beauty of it is that it's all beautiful!

I went to an elite nightclub last weekend (a week ago tonight) and I was blown away by the beauty represented in that place. It was a Soul Train Halloween party, DJ Mick Boogie was bumpin' the beats, and the aura was indescribable. You could feel the love in that place. I asked my sister, "Where has this place been all my life? We have to come back!" Maybe I need to get out more often, make more time for myself and take a break from work every once in a while. That place was a pleasant breath of fresh air and a reminder of who we are: a strong, vibrant and beautiful group of people kissed by the sun.

I love my melanin. Oil of Olay has a slogan, "Love the skin you're in". That applies to more than just the complexion of your skin. It goes deeper into the soul and flows through the mind.